Loyal Brave and True (To Myself)

Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in carousing and drunkenness, sexual immorality, debauchery, dissension, and jealousy. Romans 13:13

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With all that is happening around me, I try to remain loyal, brave, and true (thanks Mulan😊) to myself and my daily values. Since childhood, after disappointments and betrayals during all these years, I have understood that the only way to react to the elements of life is to stay honest with oneself.

Over the years, I have gradually understood the nature of the human being, I don’t denigrate it, but I don’t adhere to it. Instead, I choose a completely different path, that of the truth, and yes, sometimes the truth hurts; it is hard, especially when everything you believe in is a lie, to which we have attached ourselves for fear of disappointment, of losing things, friends, family, job…

But in the end, if what we hold on to only destroys us, how does it serve our greater good? If everything is done only to satisfy the other, not you, by the end of the day. The most important person you find yourself and to whom you must face is yourself.

I can’t pretend anymore; I don’t have hidden agenda or other motives when I cross with people. How they can live a life like this! I stopped trying to understand and gave them the benefice of the doubt. People know what they are doing, so.

We are no longer children; we can discern the good from the bad. We know every action comes with consequences. We have to bear it like adults we are. So assume every decision we make, and when it does not fit our expectations stop blaming others.

You know what, I am responsible for my cause; I let God deal with the rest (yes, I choose the word rest in purpose). I’m not better than anyone, but I try every day to be better than I was yesterday. So do you, NO?

I mind my business, take care of myself, be grateful for the day I can see when I wake up, thank God for the blessing he gives me and keeps moving forward in my life. Focus on my own happiness. I don’t depend on anybody to fill my cup. I full it on my own ❤️✨.

I let people around me be what they want to be and not let them take down my values because it doesn’t fit them. Guys, we all have free will, so deal with it and stay the fuck away from me with your bullshit, lack of self-love, self-worth or whatever issues you have.

Damn 🙄. We all have baggage, and skeletons, so please grow up and heal your wounds. Stop projecting your insecurity on others. I chose what I feel it’s best for me, I chose God, I chose life, I chose me. I said what I said.

At the end of the day, I am the only one to deal with all my choices and bills by the way (in case you didn’t know it 😏), not anybody else. So why I will let your opinion or what you may say in my back(yeah!) interfere in my life. Period! 😏🙄

May God help you 😮‍💨

@vibeshigh

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